Saturday, 11 August 2007

Men.

Men. Strange specimens aren't they... some like you to wear high heels in bed, or dress up in underwear.. they're all about the sex and some just like you as you are- the person you are, and want to get to know the true you. Some men like it when you cook for them and are homely. Other men just want to use you when it suits them and dump you when it doesn't. Some men can talk about how they feel if they get jealous, others just throw tantrums. Some men are spoiled rich kids that never grew up, others are caring and considerate and human.

Some men laugh when you dance, enjoy it when you sing, and have fun photographing you. Others cancel you for most dates, and dump you when you finally have one. Some men aren't perfect physically, others aren't perfect at all. Some men can't get enough of you and want to see you constantly.. others can't even spare 5 minutes to call you. Some men want to be loved, other men just want to be respected. Some men are easier to understand than others. If you could always choose the good men and filter out the bastards life would be so much easier.

Some women just attract psychopathic mental cases. Well my psychopathic mental case just left me and seems a lot happier for it. Good for him. I guess my friends were right- I did want to look after him and save him. A part of me still believes in him and wants to hold him and save him.

But now I have discovered men that want to look after me and save me. thses men are kinder and rich in far more many and important ways than simply money.


3 comments:

Thomas Ebdrup said...

It seems like you are on the right track. Respect and honesty is worth much more than money or infatuation in the long run.
Im looking forward to the time when you fall in love with one of the nice men you see. You will be much happier and less stressed. You life will defenately become much easier.
You will have time and surpus to take care of yourself, which is what you have to do.
You will get help and love without having to beg or ask for it.
Money is defenately not all, as you now. It unfortunately often corrupts people and turn them into unplesant people who doesnt enjoy the simple things in life.
Hope you fall in love with someone else soon. You deserve the best.

Anonymous said...

It's so good to hear that you've finally realised that are as many different kinds of men out here, as there are birds in the sky. Even the kind you really need.

Life is quite short when you think of it. If I read your blog right, you might even be ready to stop wasting your time.

You're a nice ripe strawberry. Don't let it go to waste.

- Gentleman Bob

Harrier said...

Just read this and can honestly say you seem to have hit the nail on the head.

There are so many different types of MEN & Women, most are total arse's but there are the odd few that are just themselves instead of trying to be something they are not.

There are some that are willing to give what you need and want but few and far between.

I wish you all the luck in the world for your future and hope all works out for you in the end.

Take good care of yourself.

Harrier.